UPDATE: A very helpful lady pointed out that I should also add some of the "specifics" that I am already looking at so you can rant or rave about them!
So, these are the only things I have found so far that I am somewhat attached to or interested in:
THE CRIB:
I REALLY (really really) want a convertible crib that moves from crib to toddler bed to full bed. Jeremy says he assumes they are all "rickety" and fears for our child's life. I suspect there will be a pattern emerging here ...
Anyway, this is one I found and have been able to actually look at in the store:

Thoughts on convertible cribs or this brand in general?
THE DIAPERS:
I have very sincere intentions of going the cloth diaper route, and the diapers they make now are freakin' amazing.
My (very) limited research has me leaning toward THIS brand ...

... but I REALLY need feedback on this one. I know they pay for themselves in three months or less, but it is still a big investment. Especially if you make the investment and then realize you have the diapers and are probably going to use disposable anyway because you are so upset.
So, Internet, what do we think of Bumgenius?
THE CAR SEAT:
I read so much about car seats that all words lost meaning. Like when you say one word over and over, and all of a sudden you are pretty sure that it is not a real word anymore. That is my current relationship with all words.
Anyway, here is the car seat that is supposedly the safest car seat ever:

So why doesn't it have little pads on the straps? Every other car seat in the world has them!
I DO like how gender-neutral it is though. When I told Jeremy I was already stressing out about the safest car seat, he just laid his hand on top of mine and said, "Oh, honey, we won't be able to afford the safe car seats, so don't even worry about it." Love that guy! :)
Any thoughts on brands and safety and weight allowances or ... uh oh, the words are losing meaning again.
SWING:
I know I will want one of these babies, and, again, I have been reading tons of reviews, desperately trying to find one that people claim has a motor that doesn't burn out and is stable enough that your child will not fall out of it.
This is what I found:
I am REALLY hoping people have some rants and raves about specific models, because I don't care how it looks, just how it functions.
I am still totally clueless on the highchair, stroller, and some sort of pack and play device. But on a last awesome note, look at this!

